Surely…to God….I am going to get published in some way, shape, or form.  There is NO way that I’m not being that all of the STUPID stuff on facebook gets nationally circulated!  Serioulsy!  What about those photos that say share if you love God, ignore if you love the devil…..seriously?……What’s the deal!?

Brings me to my point….stupid stuff of social media.  It wasn’t until very recently that I started exploring social media outside of the same old Facebook.  I don’t know how to use Twitter but I started tweeting!  Instagram pisses me off because people choose to use it as Facebook and flood my feed with a crap ton of pictures individually posted…Periscope….NO CLUE HOW TO USE IT but it’s on my phone! Yay!  I’m hip!  I’m on fleek!?  I use LinkedIn…kind of….I know how to use it more than the others and I love the idea of professional networking.  I think I have actually “met” maybe 5 of my LinkedIn friends…the other 9,478 are just random people who added me!

People select a mood and then post…..don’t even type words….just “hey someone ask me why I just emoticated that I am depressed….yeah….I just made up a word…emoticated!  So what?!?

Maybe I get on folks nerves with my newfound positive outlook but folks are really getting on my nerves with the vastly spread negativity!  I post something positive and friends COMMENT negative….keep that crap on your own page YO!  I just want everyone to smile more!  Seriously…if you start out the morning by singing your favorite tune and smiling a REAL smile, your entire day will be better than it would have been otherwise!  Don’t, instead, go to FB and try to sour everyone else’s day!

Bye for now,

RR

This will be short and a little “rant-ish” if you will….

How much butt kissing is really too much kissing butt?  Where do you draw the line between a little white lie and a flat out lie when it comes to pleasing clients and other people?  Steve Harvey said his dad taught him to never get into the butt kissing business.  Because not everyone is going to like how you do it!  I agree!  However, sometimes, you have to KINDA kiss butt!  I have some that love it and I have some that get offended and want me to be “real” with them.  I wish everyone wanted reality!  It would be so much easier!  I will do my due diligence in aiding my clients in the quickest, most effective way to increase their profit AS ALONG AS it doesn’t effect MY profit or MY integrity.  I struggle with THAT point.  When I’m at THAT point, I get quiet.  It’s apparent that I’ve said all that I’m going to say but it isn’t specific to what my thoughts are in that moment!  Part of that reason is I don’t want to lose my job!  The other part is, I’m not comfortable with confrontation.  As part of my reinvention process, I want to get better about that.  I don’t wanna go around arguing with everyone…but I would like to proudly be honest and up front more often!

I seem to have ZERO problem being bluntly honest about my immediate thoughts with my HUSBAND!  He’s probably the only one I should really take stock in thinking about what I say to!  Why is that?  Why is it that the one you love the most is the one you are hardest on?  I need to be kissing HIS butt sometimes!  I bet he’d like that!

Bye for now,

RR